Dating a insecure girl
Her emotions are like a hurricane: as soon as they comes, they can also be gone.
And a guy wants to believe that he’s going to be the one who tames her, that she’ll be his domestic Debbie.
The moment she pulls away, that massive ego begins to lurch. It results in fights, guys showing up at her house (and mine) yelling in the street for her, and lots of bad feelings. First, all the drama is essentially emotional stimulation.
I’ve watch guys cancel travel plans, leave work early, and go into debt trying to pull this girl back into their world. Whether she’s feeling really good and excited about a guy, or whether he’s blowing up her berry with pleas and grievances, it is making her life interesting.
I’ve watched her do it to four randoms in clubs, as well as a friend of mine just to prove to me that she could. Fun wild social girl to fawning little bunny to sexual mistress.
She goes after bankers and traders whenever possible.
Moment to moment, she seeks constant emotional and physical stimulation in the form of drugs, sex, cigarettes, text flirting with guys, etc.
And unlike most of us, she’s able to get away with this because, well, she’s a hot girl in New York City who knows how to play the game. She’s out two to four nights a weeks, sometimes hitting multiple clubs at once, and she’s always at the best and hottest new club.
Insecurities she’s not comfortable sharing with a guy with whom she’s romantically involved.Then, once she’s felt that the guy has invested enough into her she’ll disappear.And here’s the funny part – it works best on the guys with huge egos. Today, let’s take a journey into the mind of a hot but deeply insecure girl to see what’s going on and how she games the men in her life.