Divorced how to start dating again

08-Mar-2017 16:09

While statistics in Psychology Today suggest that 67% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages end in divorce, things seem to go a little better for people who remarry their spouses. Nancy Kalish has researched rekindled romances since the early 1990s.

Her research focuses on ex-boyfriend and girlfriends who reconnect with lost partners after a five-year break.

People change as they grow older, but this does not mean that couples have to grow apart.

A marriage may have ended because spouses change, but they may also change again later in life and find that they once again love each other.

Even though you and your mate may have changed over the years, there are likely still some ways you are the same.

Learning to deal with the things that bothered you previously and which still occur is essential to not growing frustrated with them all over again.

Solomon says that this hesitancy is a good indicator that the couple in question is not ready to get back together.

In order for remarriage to be succesful, both spouses have to recognize that they each played a part in their marriage's demise.

So often, Solomon says, couples tend to justify and rationalize their behavior (or their former spouse's behavior) without ever taking steps towards actionable change.

She has investigated remarriage between spouses and has said that as many as 10% of divorced spouses remarry.

There are many different reasons why spouses decide to get back together.The first phase of her research, which ended in 1996, consisted of approximately 1,000 survey respondents.In the end, Kalish found that overall, 72% of reunited partners stayed together.Kalish is not the only individual who researched remarriage statistics.

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