Doing this turns dating into a fun, worthwhile experience that lets you figure out what kind of partner you’re looking for.Every man you meet is a gift that allows you to learn about yourself and discover what you want and don’t want out of a relationship. Right might actually look nothing like you imagined.You start to think about him all the time, you begin to worry that you might mess things up, and you’re constantly wondering what he’s thinking about you.You talk about him with all of your friends, dissecting his every move.If you’re at all like me, a predictable thing happens to you when you start dating a new man you like.At first, you’re all excited, there’s a spring in your step, and you feel all aglow. But then, as you get to know him and become even more interested and invested in him, something else happens.If you’re spending a lot of time and energy thinking about a guy, you might be alarmed to hear that it makes you less attractive…even if he doesn’t even know you’re thinking about him!Here, Rori Raye shares a simple Tool that shifts you out of over-thinking and makes HIM start thinking about you.
That’s why you absolutely need to keep connecting with other men and going out on dates with them.It creates the need for him to "win" you all to himself. By dating, I mean continue to flirt with men and accept invitations to meet for coffee or have dinner.If you’re online dating, it’s even easier — meet as many matches as you can.First, when a man realizes that you haven’t made him the center of your world, it keeps him motivated to court you and win you over.
If a man senses that you are utterly devoted to him before he has asked you for a commitment, it makes you actually appear less attractive to him.
You have less energy for the other things in your life – the passions and people that made you the person he was attracted to in the first place. You go from the carefree, spirited woman you are to a fearful, worrying creature. Believe it or not, a man can sense when you’re doing all this internal acrobatics about him. But telling yourself to stop thinking about him isn’t so easy.